Energy vampires are all around you and they often pretend to be your friend when they just want to suck out your goodness. There are different kinds of energy vampires such as narcissists and those that will have split personalities.
No matter what kind of energy vampire you know, the best thing that you can do is to protect yourself from this person and make sure that you are safe and secure in your mind, body and soul. Here are some ways to protect yourself:
Love Yourself
An energy vampire will never be able to attack you if you have good self-esteem. They tend to go with people that are weak and have terrible lives. If you are quiet and you don’t say much, chances are this person will try to attack and abuse you.
Show them that you are good and that you love yourself. Even if you aren’t feeling it, pretend while they are around.
Have Rules
Everyone needs to have boundaries when it comes to people. When you deal with an energy vampire, you have to have rules, or they will make you feel bad. You have to put yourself first and get rid of the toxic out of your life.
An energy vampire will never be able to get your energy if you stay positive and you set your own rules and boundaries.
Control
Never let an energy vampire control you. They will do whatever they can to convince you to believe them and to do what they want you to do. Don’t let them see that you are shy but be assertive and stand up for yourself.
Tell them that you value that they have an opinion but that you are going to do what you want to do and what is best in your life.
Stay Calm
No matter what the energy vampire is doing, try and stay calm. Don’t let them upset you or get under your skin. Don’t let their abuse bother you. If they see that you are afraid, they will keep at it until they get under your skin.
Always stay calm and when they are bothering you, just walk away.
Say No
Energy vampires will do what they can to take advantage of others. They will see what they can get out of you and what you will do for them. The one way to not let them drain your energy is to learn to say no.
If you don’t want to do something, say no. If you want to do it, do it but always have rules when it comes to doing things that make you tried.
Smile a Lot
One of the worse things that you can do to an energy vampire is to be happy. If you smile and you don’t send out negative energy, their negative energy cannot come to you. They will do what they can to make you feel bad, some of them will even put a spell on you. Don’t let them be successful.
Stay Away
If worse comes to worse, the best thing that you can do is to stay away from this person. This can be someone in your family, a friend, lover or a co-worker. No matter who it is, don’t let them control and ruin your life.
Never feel bad for letting someone go. You deserve to have peace and you deserve to be happy. Don’t feel guilty if you need to let someone go and move on with your happy life.